February 6, 2012

Myrtle Beach Memorial Day Parade

Buzz Aldrin: American Hero, Grand Marshal

Since we’re hanging out in Myrtle Beach (the draw of the ocean is powerful), we celebrated our freedom with others at the inaugural Memorial Day weekend parade in Myrtle Beach. For some, the highlight was seeing Buzz Aldrin lead the parade. No question, it was great to be close to an American hero. But the highlight for me (and I think for others in my family) came later in the parade.

As parades go, this one went well. We had plenty of room, the crowd was friendly and the balloons, bands, floats and other elements were spaced out in a way that it felt easy, entertaining and fun. And it had firetrucks.

The two highlights focused on the purpose of the weekend. The first was the sheer number of veterans marching in the parade. It was enough to bring a tear to my eye – especially thinking of what they must have seen and experienced. But the tears really came when I watched a woman leap from the side of the road and walk up to each man and shake their hand. In fairness, I wish I did, too. But my eyes were swelling with tears and I was holding my children. I guess we all have lessons to learn and people to thank.

The second moment was watching mothers of soldiers walk – some with pictures. As a parent now, I understand their sacrifice — and their pride. We clapped loudly and long for both groups of people.

The parade got us thinking and talking about freedom, our country and our service men and women fighting for our freedoms. We took time to remember, to thank and to reflect. It was a great parade, and a great day.

The Lesson of the Sand Sculpture

Myrtle Beach Sand Sculpture (May 15, 2010)

This sand sculpture was created for television’s “The Early Show” and the live shot held on Friday morning (we opted not to go, despite the fact that Dave Price also graduated Cornell). It was neatly cordoned off  (and protected by a police officer) and clearly a showpiece for the grand opening of the boardwalk. I was impressed not only with the sculpture, but with the respect people showed and the ease of stepping in to get a picture.

But the beauty of the sculpture came on the walk down the boardwalk.

My son and I lead the way, and talked the entire walk. Eventually, the topic turned back to the sculpture and we discussed the sand, the process of creating it and how much time and effort it took. One of the things important to our family is to celebrate a job well done (which includes roadwork, paving driveways and other tasks sometimes overlooked). My son asked me how long the sculpture would last and I replied that I suspected it would be destroyed by the following day.

“By the people who made it?” my son asked. I went on to explain that when the crowd left, and police went home, some kids would probably smash it. It wasn’t about being negative, but calling it based on experience. His response, however, was priceless.

He launched into an animated statement about how much effort was put into the creation and why it should be celebrated and not destroyed by someone who doesn’t appreciate it. I don’t recall his exact words, but I recall thinking to myself that he really understands. He gets the concept of working hard and doing the right thing.

Talk about teachable moment… for us both. We went on with a discussion that lasted a few minutes about right from wrong, working hard, protecting creations and the ability to embrace creating with the understanding it may not be appreciated and might be destroyed. I’m not sure how much of the deeper meaning he got, but it was a good lesson for me.

Frog Friend

Our Friend, The Frog

We found this little guy waiting at the door to the condo when we got home. We walked carefully so we didn’t spook him. After all, we’re good neighbors, and he clearly had the wrong house. He decided to move to the side and stick around — long enough for me to grab the camera, take his picture and bid him a good evening.

We think he stuck around for a while, but he was fairly quiet. We have a lizard hanging out on the deck and we’ll see if he’s up for a picture soon, too.

Tuesday Afternoon Rainbow

A perfect end to a Tuesday

At the end of a long Tuesday (good, but busy), I saw the other end of this rainbow on the way to return a movie to Redbox. Then I followed it home. Alas, no gold at the end of this rainbow. Instead, I got a perfectly timed reminder that life is good, and sometimes we need to take a moment to stop and celebrate the rainbows in life.

So we did.

The Barefoot Turtle

The Barefoot (Landing) Turtle

Barefoot Landing in Myrtle Beach has a large lake filled with fish (huge fish, the size of our kids!), ducks, turtles and even an alligator (unless it’s a crocodile). Away from the big pond is a small sculpted garden area with a nice water feature (I’ve watched enough HGTV to know what it’s called; I probably would have called it a small pond before).

We walked around and found all sorts of fun things — including this turtle. He clearly (thinks he) owns the place and when I stopped to snap his picture, let me know this was his pond. No snapping on his part; the look was enough. Seriously though, he didn’t seem to care I was only a few feet away. I guess life in the small pond is good.

The Ultimate Sand Toy

The Ultimate Sand Toy

New to Myrtle Beach this year is the addition of a boardwalk. In April, it was exciting to watch the pace of development — and the heavy machinery on the beach, including this digger. We’re fans of building sand castles and know it’s the tools that make the difference. So imagine the excitement (and pure lust) at the thought using this as our “sand toy.” Of course, it was only a thought.

If you happen to have a digger near the ocean and are looking for someone to, um, test it out…

Best Friends at the Beach

Best Friends... at the beach

Early March and the kids couldn’t wait to dip their toes in the ocean. Together. They are the best of friends…